Je n’aime pas jouer avec mon enfant… Que faire?

You’re not the kind of adult who particularly likes to play with her kids, do you happen to feel introverted? Relax, you are not alone.

Active parenting sites constantly praise the benefits of parenting and the play moments shared by children. And there are good reasons: having fun with your kids will satisfy your concerns, develop complicity and enrich (sometimes to be restored) links. However, many parents don’t have any special fun playing with their offspring. If so, what should I do? Force yourself? Of course not!

Why don’t you force yourself?

According to Charlotte Ducharme, a neuropsychologist and feathered parent, forcing ourselves to play dinner or a small car when we don’t want to have negative emotions (impatient, frustrated…) that can have a harmful effect on the relationship.

“I don’t like playing”: 4 tips

The good news is that it is not inevitable. Have fun moments with your family.

1. Ask yourself why you don’t like playing

If the lack of fun with the game moment can be a simple matter of interest (you don’t like playing with friends), there are other possible reasons, including fatigue, especially the time it takes, especially for you. All parents’ experts say this: resting parents will inevitably provide their children. Don’t fight yourself: Maybe you’re just lacking resources.

2. Redefine the verb “play”

When you hear the word “play” you imagine spending an hour building a kapla trick or dressing up as a bedspread…this doesn’t pack you. Honestly, neither are we. There are many other forms of playing: listening to music, singing and dancing, posing, hiding yourself, inventing jokes, guessing, breaking records… These moments of sharing are real moments of play!

3. Provide activities you like

Did you step into a scene game that didn’t really arouse the passion in your home? List activities that you are as interested in as your little ones: reading, cooking, garden, cycling, ping-pong, walking in the woods for a long time, going to the library, repairing items, customizing clothes, painting…

4. Change the fun

Playing with children is also the repetitive side of things. Please do not hesitate to change activities to prevent this fatigue from the absolute vast majority. In this sense, hiding games to bring them out better is a good path. When we haven’t seen Lego blocks for two months, we hardly feel…

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